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To help people who help people, the organization needs to be healthy and have practices in place that consider the trauma of those they serve. Lauren Spigelmyer and Jessica Doering have helped thousands of people who help people all over the world. Each week they'll explore tools, insights, and stories to help you lead and live with more clarity, calm, and connection. If you’re looking for support as you grow your organization’s capacity for caring for staff and the community, we would love to be part of that journey.
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Boundaries as Leadership Infrastructure
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Lauren shares how clear boundaries serve as vital leadership infrastructure, helping regulate teams, reduce anxiety, and prevent burnout. She explains how predictable limits build psychological safety and support creativity and sustainable performance, while unclear boundaries lead to over-availability, resentment, and exhaustion.
She also offers practical guidance on system-level boundaries like response times, recovery periods, escalation protocols, and shared agreements, encouraging leaders to start by tightening just one boundary to support long-term sustainability for both themselves and their organizations.
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Resources:
Clockwork by Mike Michalowicz
Gino Wickman
Other related resources from Five Ives:
Blog Post:
- Why Traditional Employee Wellness Programs Fail (And What Works Instead)
- Survive Mode: Recognizing When Your Organization is in Crisis
- What are the Five Ives?
Podcast:
- Clarity as a Safety Cue
- When Leaders Become the Stressor
- Episode 2: Authority Without Fear
- Episode 1: What Stress Does to Decision Making
- The Pause Between Now and Next
- Leading From a Regulated Core
- Designing Rhythms that Regulate
- When Culture Dysregulates
- Growth & Feedback Without Fear
- Onboarding as Co-Regulation
- Policy as a Nervous System
- Why Women in Leadership Micromanage
- The Regulated Organization: What it Means to be a Regulated Organization
Our Online Programs:
- Behavior Breakthrough
- Policing Under Pressure
- Board Governance Training
- University of Pennsylvania Behavior Breakthrough Accredited Course
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