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How On Earth Do We Deal with Misbehavior? Pt. 3
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Over the last few episodes, Lauren has discussed how other cultures teach cooperation, helpfulness, motivation, and emotional control. This is the third episode in a three part series on how other cultures handle children's misbehavior. You can find the link to the first two episodes in the show notes.
Lauren does a quick review of the strategies discussed in the first two episodes and then adds a couple more. Today these include using role play, questions, and general lightheartedness to change the situation.
Lauren answers this week’s listener question during the episode: There’s a significant age gap between our youngest child and our middle child. It creates huge power struggles and is tough to manage the emotional needs of both.
Try-at-home tip: Read more children’s stories and do more creating.
Mentioned in this episode:
- Bringing up Bebe - Pamela Druckerman
- Hunt, Gather, Parent - Michaeleen Doucleff
- There's No Such Thing as Bad Weather - Linda Akeson McGurk
- Achtung Baby - Sara Zaske
- The Danish Way of Parenting - Jessica Joelle Alexander, Dissing Sandahl
Other related resources from The Behavior Hub:
Blog Post:
- Comm: Give Children a Problem to Solve
- The Brain in the Palm of Your Hand: Dan Siegel Hand Model
- Emotional Brain: The Barking Dog (Limbic System)
Podcast:
- Problem-solving steps
- The Brain in the Palm of your Hand: Dan Siegel’s Hand Model
- The Barking Dog: Our Emotional Brain
- How on Earth Do We Deal with Misbehavior
- How on Earth Do We Deal with Misbehavior? Pt. 2
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